Hey Yoyo, now I am probably not the person to advise you as I feel like I have had enough also, but I think there comes a time when enough is enough. Your last text sounded very clear and well thought out. 9 months is a long time, and if you are fed up with Mr Yoyo yanking your chain, then yes, it is good that you let him know.
H texted back " You are very noisy. Talk to you tmrw. Things will be fine with us. Trust me".
Yoyo when I read this I saw red . What a condescending thing for him to say. Grrrr
Honey take care of yourself and your boys. You are one strong chickadee!