I understand how frustrating it is; it is hard to know what they are thinking half the time. Do I understand it correctly that you are spending New Year's with him? If so, that's great. I am having just as much difficulty DB'ing lately. In my case, it's because things were turning around (I thought) and H. was making all kinds of comments about coming back; his A. with o.w. was really on the rocks and he came to our house in the middle of the night last Sat. eve. Told me he'd made a huge mistake, etc. So, back and forth, back and forth. I keep hoping it will burn out. I'm so exhausted from all this; I'm sure you are, too. Sounds like your H. still maintains good contact with you; that is a huge plus. Keep up the good work, and the cute text messages!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
