Yoyo mmmm it's like looking in a mirror and seeing my own R. It's true they do blame us and will not admit guilt not fully anyhow and anything they can put on us they will just to make them feel better. They will lie and say whatever it takes to keep dancing between 2 people. They may split up with one and then go back and then split up and then go back over and over. I have been thinking that things were improving with my H and I but you know what I am starting to think they will never be.....You do have time so just see what happens until Jan......