Yoyo I am sorry you are feeling disappointed. I loved Kismets idea on the itching powder
Yoyo your H says the most unbelievable things at times like the if I am lying to her wouldn't you think I would lie to you type thing. I know you want to fight her and you want to win your H but do you really think you love your H at the moment.
If not then go dark, don't contact him GAL, don't give a $hit and see what he does but in order for that to work you have to truly not care and you have to want to do it for you not to just get a reaction out of H. If you aren't in that place yet that is fine just keep going like you are.
Whatever you do Yoyo it has to be what feels comfortable for you so otherwise I don't have much advise but I do remind you of when you dropped the rope once before he was doing all the chasing, which is what makes me think he is still interested. Just my opinion for what it is worth.