Hey Yoyo looks like we are posting at the same time.
some old but nice lingerie, clothes, facial masks etc etc. She'll ask "how come your wife is here? I thought you are separated?
Why not take it one step further and leave something that def lets her know that you are still having s@x eg. chocolate body paint in the fridge, that pair of handcuffs that must have fallen out of your bag into H's car. Now this is getting fun. I am sure you can think of something or some of that really tacky lingerie they flog on ebay.
Hehehe ~ must be fun playing the OW to the ow (notice she is not given caps as she is not worthy of them).
Hehehe ~ must be fun playing the OW to the ow (notice she is not given caps as she is not worthy of them).
Hee hee...this just brought back memories of Mon. I was at the drugstore after meeting with Dave. I was on the phone talking with best friend and telling her something about the exact same thing and then apparently quite loudly I said "Oh my, this makes me the ow.!" The people in line heard me, and one lady flashed me this nasty look...I started laughing..and sorry, I am my husbands ow now...he's been having an A. Everyone started laughing and smiling...phew...priceless moment.
You have a lovely time this weekend!! I'll be thinking of lovely thoughts for you!! And yes, by all means get some trashy lingerie and wear it, leave it behind worn of course somewhere she might find it!! HEE HEE!!! Spray your favorite perfume all over the place, his clothes, etc....lipstick on the shirts...oh go to town...claim what is rightfully yours!!
I am such the bad girl right now...I should shush up!!
Quote: really don't see my sitch going anywhere, BAD or GOOD...unless.. 1) I confront OW and her family, all hell breaks lose.
Yoyo - I don't know what country your or OW are from, but are there particular cultural considerations that would make her and her family ashamed if it became public that she was seeing a married man?
If so - your husband is not really showing very much respect for her by having her in a position where she could bring shame upon her family? If that's the case she may just get sick of it and bugger off evenutally ....
Have a great weekend.
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
Yoyo I love the idea of making your presence known in those not so subtle ways. Whatabout and old earing poking out from under the bed on the opposite side to where H sleeps or tampons in the bathroom cupboard.
Walkingback has asked an interesting question to do with culture. Is it by any chance that you, H and OW are from an Asian background??? That would bring shame on the family I think....>KDU
eg. chocolate body paint in the fridge, that pair of handcuffs that must have fallen out of your bag into H's car Kismet - I have to say that it did give me a huge big chuckle. Unfortunately, I won't know where to get the chocolate body paint. As for handcuffs..H could easily use my boys' toys as an excuse... I have to think harder what could be an alternative s@x toy!! Think! Think! Think! Too late to get into Ebay now for those tarty lingerie...
ow (notice she is not given caps as she is not worthy of them). Okay, from now on, I will use lower-case to refer to ow..she is of the low-class sort.
Spray your favorite perfume all over the place, his clothes, etc....lipstick on the shirts...oh go to town. Horselover - yes...I intend to go to town with my super plunging neckline dress that I bought!!! Lipstick on shirts? That won't do...he's got hired help for the laundry.
I don't know what country your or OW are from, but are there particular cultural considerations that would make her and her family ashamed if it became public that she was seeing a married man?
Is it by any chance that you, H and OW are from an Asian background??? That would bring shame on the family I think Walkingback/ KDU - Yes, H, ow and I are Chinese. And yes, it would generally be very very shameful to be going out with a married man, be a marriage-wrecker. We have loads of shameful descriptions for women like these (one example that is directly translated to English is "itchy c**t"), plus the normal English ones.. So, if I/my family were to confront ow, she will have NO face left and all fingers will be pointing to her and her family. There are tonnes of Chinese sayings that puts-down the parents too. Can't describe it in English. Think that is why H is quite frightful of me confronting her...I could go to her workplace, I could go to her house.... He he he. Actually, a girlfriend was telling me that one banker had an A with his coworker. The W found out and freaked out, went to the bank and made a whole load of noise. Got the ow fired from her job. Also, she got someone to embroider the word "shame" in Chinese character and sent it to the ow's house. The W even went to the house and announced to the neighbours. I know ow is WAITING to be with my H legally. Well, she can WAIT!!! she wants to wear a Vera Wang bridal gown? In her dreams!!!! Not gonna let her have it sooo easy.
If that's the case she may just get sick of it and bugger off evenutally .... Walkingback - Hope this would be the case! But heard from my friend that she is a strong woman that strives to get what she wants!!! So, this would be a head-to-head battle between ow and I. Unless, the "shame" of exposure is stronger... Don't know...we'll wait and see.
Whatabout and old earing poking out from under the bed on the opposite side to where H sleeps or tampons in the bathroom cupboard. KDU - Again, H has hired help. So, don't think she will discover the earring while changing the sheets. But I will take your offer of taking some tampons there.... no bathroom cupboard though... Got to think where to slip it.
just good luck this weekend Flaneur - Thanks... Good Luck is good!!! Think all of us need some good luck.
Journalling... H did text me to ask about my dizzy spells this afternoon. I texted back. Few more notti text exchanges between us. I've given up trying to read what's with my yoyo-ing H. I think the analyzing and all will drive me nuts. So, I don't do it. Maybe when I am b@tching to my friends, then some analysis comes up. So might as well be detached for the negatives, and enjoy the positives. And while enjoying the positives, hopefully I can make ow mad!
Received an email from my mentor "Man can live forty days without food, but not even forty seconds without hope". So, that is it! As long as I have hope, all will be good! Hope is one thing that I have!!!
Hi Yoyo...just catching up with you a bit. One thing that stuck out for me...the ow had the nerve to leave her personal things at your H's house??? That should be all packed up and disposed of, just get it out of there. And don't say a word, let her question H and he can be clueless...she will know who took it, especially when you leave your stuff in it's place.
BTW...I keep forgetting to say thank you for the mention of the MakeUp Don't Break Up book...it's fantastic and I've been spreading the word all over here. I reread that and DR on a daily basis now...they've become my new bibles of choice for this rollercoaster ride. Thanks again!!
Unfortunately, I won't know where to get the chocolate body paint.
Yoyo, I did actually have some in my fridge (left over from Valentine's Day) and as it wasn't getting any action (as I am not) and approaching its use by date, I started putting it on S14's sandwiches. So how sad is that
BTW I just picked it up from a dept store ~ but I think they tend to bring those things out around Valentine's Day.
I do like VJ's idea of packing up ow's stuff.
Can't describe it in English. Think that is why H is quite frightful of me confronting her...I could go to her workplace, I could go to her house.... He he he
Now that is scary. I think I would be sooo tempted ~ esp back in those early days.Hopefully I have moved on since then ~ but who knows. I have been known to yoyo quite a bit myself
Yoyo all the best for this weekend ~ go and dazzle that boy, and look after yourself too.
between us. I've given up trying to read what's with my yoyo-ing H. I think the analyzing and all will drive me nuts. So, I don't do it. Maybe when I am 
