Yoyo! Just dropped by to say hi and see how you are doing. I agree with Kim, your H does sound a bit like a Mr. Yoyo. One day he wants you and the boys in Country X with him, the next day he tells you if he had the choice he would be with OW, then the next day it's the phone sex.
Hope you and H enjoy your 9th wedding anniversary this weekend with no major crisis or tsunamis
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years