Hi YoYo just been catching up on all your posts and I can understand how you are confused b/c I am. Your H just goes from one side to the other over and over. I find it amusing that the moment you mention speaking to OW he starts with the X-Rated texts and then wants you to go to his Country.
Next he says he can't see a solution b/c you wont budge and neither will he. This tells me he will not give up OW but if this is the case why does he constantly have phone sex with you and want you to go over there for sex. Is it no good with OW or does she go away alot and he can't get it so gets it from you.
I don't know if you know the answers to those questions but it is something for you to think about. I hope this weekend is better than it is sounding and you seem to be strong in where you are going and what you are doing so keep it up if it is working for you.
Goodluck this weekend and will wait for your post....KDU
