From my last post, sent H a text..
Me: You want a divorce? Is that it?
H: Sorry...am in a meeting. Talk to you when you come over. Havent' decided yet.

WTF??? Anyway, half an hour later, H calls my mobile. TOld me that he is going back to Country X. I hand the phone to S5 and S8. Then the phone is handed back to me. Spoke a little bit about the medical claims, and if we have medical cards. And H says that he thinks we have it..he will check. He's got to go to a neighbouring town for two days from tmrw.

After the call. I texted H.
Me: Some ground rules about this weekend's TALK. No shouting. No Screaming. No killing. One party can talk and talk. The other party listens, but not necessarily must agree. Suggest we f**k first so that the f**king session can calm down the tensions. To streamline the talk, suggest you have a written agenda.

.... One Day at a TIME!!