I know you guys are probably saying that I am trying to get back my H in the wrong ways...BUT I think this is the only way that I can do now. Leaving him on his own is not getting all of us anywhere... He is just soooo yoyo-ing that I need to give him the little nudge. I guessed the only time that I will re-think this strategy is WHEN I see anger on his part or other dramatic behavioral change. So far, H is quite "normal" in our interactions.
