Yoyo... Giving H the sense of loss is as important too ....
Of course he knows he will lose a lot - and he is just refusing to decide cause he is sort of comfortable with the situation where he is...
I know I am giving you this advice.. and I am having hard time following it up myself..... sense of loss and a bit of jelousy etc etc. and some sense.. and some pressure... it might work...
I read it somewhere - TRW -
1. Tentalize WAS with whatever your best features are - talent.. money...looks..anything.. 2. Reassure them by actions that u wont get too close. 3. Worry WAS that he can lose you.
