Yoyo, Thank you for your post. What your friend said really gave me pause. Because of this, I'm also realizing that I'm letting false pride get the best of me. I haven't detached at all. You have. I have to let him have pride too. Be strong. Don't push at all, he said he made the choice. Now let's see if he can follow through. You are projecting. Let him think he's making the decision. Be strong.