BigAl - Thanks for dropping by with your comments/advice. I do feel better! I do hope that he does know WHAT is the RIGHT thing to do. What I am afraid of is that he asks us to move to Country X, and his YEARNING for OW will make my life there unbearable. *sigh*... That is quite a scary thought. I don't know if I should "clarify" if he is sure that he wants us there... Although his text about "things may not be the same" is rather negative...I don't know, in general, he still treats me rather well. I am quite confused at this point in time...and is trying to just not say anything really bad to jeopardise the current sitch of him wanting to have an exit strategy with OW. *sigh* Any ideas anyone?? I thought of going dark, but I think that's not it. So, what I'll do is not to contact him till before I go to bed, and just have a short "Good Night and Love you, Wifey" Text later tonight...Nothing else I can do except that I guessed.
Journalling.. After the last text, I was kinda shifty and yoyo-ing, and wanting to send him a text about me NOT wanting to go to Country X if he doesn't want me blah blah blah...BUT Stopped myself.
I did send H a text about 4 hours later (for our joint financial stuff)... Me: Please send $$$ to XYZ Bank. H: I have no money. My claims are late. Me: How then? We need the $$$ to pay for the loan. I thought you said that you have $$$? H:It was supposed to go in last week already...but didn't. Will check with finance. Me: Please let me know when you hear something from your finance. I know you hate me, but please do not let this hate stifle our joint responsibilities. Thanks.
No news from H...I know I am "accusing" him of being petty and not being responsible. But this is one thing that really irks me. H pushing away THIS bit of responsibility, and me having to find a solution. *sigh* What can one do?? Plus if I go to Country X, I may not have a job?? How am I gonna sort out this bit???
