H just texted a reply...
H: It has nothing to do with being scared. SOmething we have to accept...I'm doing this because I really don't have a choice since u made it clear that u will make it difficult for divorce. I know u won't wanna hear this. Given a choice..at this moment, I'll probably be with her. Now, I just have to try to get things back to normal. May take time or might never cos it really hurts.
Me: I know it hurts. I accept that. I am just saying that in the the long run, this would be the best for her and the boys. Don't you agree? I you love her and the boys, you need to do this. As I said, you can hate me or despise me. But as long as you think of the boys first, I am fine with that. I just hope time will heal your hurt and you will learn to love me again. Love Wifey.
H: Never said that I don't love you...

SO,...go gather????!!?? WTF??

I know I am GIVING HIM NO CHOICE...Forcing him to come back to me for the wrong reasons?? At this point, I don't care....Let's wait and see what OW says...

One Day at a TIME!!!