You guys are right there...I think before, I would have brought it up with H and would have said something like "guess what I heard...." and I think that would not have gotten me anywhere other than backwards. I have to REMEMBER to sloooooowwww down my mouth, so that the words can go through my brains first before I speak. Also, the behaving without any pre-conceived ideas or outcome is very important... Will try to keep it all up... Hopefully things will get better and improve...
