O.K. YoYo I think you are doing well but can I make a suggestion....

You seem to be pursuing H since you came back from country X and to me he will answer you but is not initiating like he did before.

You can still say I Love You and sign off Wifey and still do all that but can I suggest that you let him pursue you, don't be so available. When you are available you can still act like you are but let him contact you.

When you did this before look at how he chased you, I bet you are not having phone sex anymore this is all b/c he now thinks he has you back where he wants and that is accepting of OW and waiting for him, I don't think that is healthy.

You need to act as if and GAL as I said you can still be pleasant and friendly when he does contact you but let him initiate the contact. This is just my opinion and I have voiced it, it doesn't mean that I am right so in the end you do what you feel is right but at least think it over.....Goodluck.....KDU


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