I have to say that I was a little bothered by the comment made about the "entrapment via pregnancy". And was a bit dejected with my continued effort to fight for M. I've been lurking around on the BB and reading the success stories and the DOs and DON'Ts of DBING, and I have to say that I feel much better. I can't control H or OW, but I can control my own emotions and actions.

I will NOT ASSume things.
I will be POSITIVE.
I will ACT AS-If all is OKAY.
I will remain CALM at ALL Times.
I will NOT have any ANGER.
I will be PATIENT.
I will continue to have FAITH and HOPE.
I will SMILE more.
I will be the MORE attractive option for my H.

(I have to say the DO NOT ASSume stuff is really very true. I sent H some text messages, and didn't get any replies....thought that he wanted "space", thought that he is trying to "minimize" contact...BUT just realised that the messages have NOT been sent. So, BOTTOM Line is DO NOT ASSUME!!!!)

I have to say that Deb's advice and experience has really helped me alot, in having hope and in dealing with my sitch. I will continue to hope and pray that my sitch will improve leaps and bounds, and I can say that I am "piecing"! Well, that is still a GOAL...not there yet.

Oh...well...

One Day at a TIME!!!
It's a bright sunny future!!!!