Nothing much in terms of H, but have been doing quite a lot on the GAL side.
Sunday - Had lunch with my girlfriends, and then rushed home to take boys to a birthday party which started about 3 pm. Hung about and chatted with friends (H's and mine) till about 7.30 pm... Went home, hung around a bit with boys...Put boys to bed, and then went on to prepare stuff for the halloween party that I'm having...Had a couple of texts from H. H: WOke up in the middle of the night. I'm ok here. Bought shoes and new suit. Call u in a few days. Trying to sleep again. Nite nite. (H normally doesn't spend much on shoes and clothes...and lately, he's been spending a bomb on these stuff!!!) H: Everthing OK?? Me: All Ok. Boy r fine. Just came back from R's girls' birthday party....blah blah. Will be having a Halloween party tmrw at our house. Going to bed now. Nite Nite. H: Nite nite...
Next Day - Monday... Was busy getting ready for the party. Whole group of our mutual friends as well as some of mine came to the party. Was hectic but fun. I dressed up as a Witch. The other friend dressed up as a vampire...and made alittle girl cried, and his own son puke. LOL... One of H's old and good friend was there too... He acted kinda strange towards me..like he didn't know what to say. Anyway, after the party, I texted H. Me: How r you? All ok? Just had the Halloween Party at our hse. Whole gang came. Blah blah blah... Nite. Nite. Lots of Love Wifey xxx H: I'm okay...was just abt to sms you. going to office now. bye.
This morning..Tuesday... I called him up for the boys to talk to him... When he said "Hello"..I just said "Wait, boys want to talk to you"...and passed the phone to S8 and S5. I heard S5 ask him at the end of their convo "do you want to talk to mummy?" and I think H said "I will call her later..". SO, he didn't really want to talk to me. ... Oh well... Also, today, I got an email from H telling me that he couldn't see the pics that I sent, and that he visited the King Tut exhibition at LA. I replied, and asked abit about the exhibition, and sort of hinted on US visiting Egypt next spring, talked about our party etc etc. Again, I signed off as Love, Wifey xxx Oh..had breakfasts at Mc.Ds with some friends and their kids. We were talking about my sitch. One of the question that came up was "What if OW makes herself pregnant to trap H??" *sigh* Can't really control this factor can I? Just have to pray that my H is NOT SOOO stupid!!!! And pray that the OW is also NOT SOOO evil!!!! OH..also heard that the whole group of guys went on to play poker after the Halloween Party, and the whole time, they were b#tching about my H. Also, one of the guys have seen the OW..says "She's tall, slim and quite pretty..but not my type". Oh well... She's my H's type...and my H is IN-LOVE with her... Will really have to NOT focus on my H anymore...focus on not letting OW have her cake... and hopefully, it will give me strength to fight for my M.
I think H is still rather conflicted..He wants OW and wants the kids? Don't know if he really wants me..Not gonna self-pity. Gonna focus...focus..focus....to fight OW off....Can't do much now..other than GAL. H is travelling for the entire week.
It's a bright sunny future! 
