Quote: XH just told me he met someone in California when he was out there last week. I don't know how to feel about it...
I'm sure you feel numb right now. Do you think he is telling you this to make you mad so it will be easier for him to leave? I have read that guilt will cause them to do or say things they don't mean because they want us to get mad so it all turns around on us.
Take time to let yourself adjust to what he told you. Don't worry about how you feel about this news. Worry about how you feel about your new life you are starting. Look into the future and what do you see? You see a great life for you and your daughter.
Don't let this knock you down some steps. As hard as it is keep your chin up and be happy for your daughter.