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I think its because the pressure is off of him




I agree. It seems when things started to get better for my H and I it was when the pressure was lifted off his head. He seems to get along more now that he knows I am not going to call him all the time or keep asking when he is coming home.

I think it gives them time to think more other than always trying to please us. When they don't have to "try" to please us it seems to flow better.

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take it as it is now, but keep moving forward with your life. The more you move in a different direction the better things could get!




Great Advice!!!!!!

Hang in there Hope!!!!