Ah yes, flirting is truly sublime isn't it. I wonder if the LD spouse understands how much the HD spouse digs it. I betcha my H would say, Oh I didn't know you liked it *that* much!
He is so black and white and sensitive to "right times" and so forth that he likes to only flirt unless we are going to make love right then. Why else would you start flirting? If you can't finish it, what's the point?
So this was a big thing for him. Admittedly, it was driven by the fact that we hadn't ML in 4-5 days, but still this happened two days in a row and I'm hoping for a third, lol.
And, truly, it's not so much the flirting that matters...it's the normalizing of a simple fun thing that married couples do that makes it so sweet to me. It's not something to do: when the kids are older; when he has a better job; when we get to spend more time together; when the oil is changed...but right then. It is a normal and fun thing to squeeze into your day and it boosts the Marital Morale a whole heaping lot.
Anyhoo, things are going well here. Wish we could get the EC and sex thing synchronized but we're workin on it. And I, for one, am willing to just keep plugging away until I get it right.
