Quote: So my opinion stands. I'd like to see a man get up and strip or dance or slither and all the while wondering if your mate is going to pretend to be asleep or not noticing.
Doesn't making plans for and executing a romantic date, or going well out of his comfort zone to try to get her 'in the mood', all the while knowing that his chances of successfully bedding her at the end of the night without her saying I'm too tired, or lets wait until "later", or pretending to fall asleep, are near zero on a good day? I think both sides are equally hard, but granted, different.
As a guy, it can be near impossible to find the combination of words and actions to get his LDW into 'the mood' too, and forcing our way does as little for us as throwing yourself at your man does for you.
BTW, the stripping, dancing and slithering has no apparent effect on MrsGGB. I know, I've tried. OK, the slithering was a lame one, but nonetheless, it still didn't work. And my being nekid next to her has no more effect than cuddling up with dirty greasy overalls would. Tried that again yesterday afternoon after taking a shower. It was like she didn't even notice the nekidness.
hope your date went well! I know H has been on a hot streak this week, and I hope it is continuing. If not, then I guess you'll just have to tell the kids to make a bigger mess on Monday .
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