I wasn't talking about hitting on women, or working up your nerve to ask one out--I was talking specifically about seduction..initiation..within a long term relationship.

So my opinion stands. I'd like to see a man get up and strip or dance or slither and all the while wondering if your mate is going to pretend to be asleep or not noticing.

However, thanks for the response. I'd love to chat more but I have a DATE to get ready for.

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