I often hear comments from others saying they wish they had the type of R MrsGGB and I have. I have had a hard time seeing the good in our R because I have been so focused on what it is not rather than what it is.
I think this is a common trait in most of us. As example there are LD people on this board that are now the HD in there relationships. Both ways there relationship was/is unsatisfying to them in some aspect. A few have great relationships in my opinion in other areas of what a relationship involves. Some I could almost envy for what they have. I wish I had these things and yet I do not really have the sexual issues in my relationship that I see others have. I think it is human nature to find discontent in our lives. To want what others have and to measure what we see and find ourselfs or lives somewhat lacking. I think MRS NOP as she is now on this board is the closes that I have ever seen as being completely satisfied with all aspects of there relationship and life. I am not saying perfect (though she may think what she has is perfect) but satisfied.
