Just saying hi. I don't really have anything to add to this convo except to say that I have come to respect the church's position on stuff like birth control and MB because if nothing else it forces couples to COMMUNICATE about their SL. If one has to avoid the fertile window in order to keep from conceiving and if one has nowhere to turn for satisfaction except to their spouse then that leaves people to take responsibility for their SL. KWIM? I'm not a Pollyanna. It is problematic. Hence, the problem that you are having. How to discuss/negotiate the continued issues in frequency disparity. You are doing a great job. I like Blackfoot's suggestion about alternating. Sometimes it is difficult to employ "reasonable" and "fair" solutions like that because we all want our SL to be this spontaneous, desire filled, erotic experience rather than a mark on a calendar but it could work.
