Cobra, she is following her religions particular beliefs, and her H's lead.
While I know of nothing in the scriptures about MB and I am very educated in theology, telling someone to ignore their religious beliefs and/or their H's wishes is not helpful. at all. Neither is encouraging deception.
I know I haven't been the best H lately..." and things like that.
HP he is depreciating again. Saying something along the lines of -do something about it, or dont, but stop knocking yourself. I dont find it attractive.-
Could you compromise on one week doing it every two days and the next week doing it every three days? Since he is a drive person, the more he does it the more he will think about it and want it. Just gotta get into that groove.
other compromises, 1 week a month you get to have sex as much as you want it. even if that is everyday. and twice on Sat. the other 3 weeks its every 3 days. It may be the needed impetus to get him into a different way of acting. I know --you want the desire too.
Lil I agree with you about other options together besides IC. Though my tone is not strident. We dont have to agree with others beliefs, just respect them, and work with them.