well, girls, MB is just out. It's a mortal sin. No priest is going to give me the green light and that's pretty much that. I'm okay with that, I surely didn't mean to turn this thread into a convo about that.
Oh and Corri (howdy there mama, btw) I have not pressured him wrt frequency in a LONG time. He knows that this doesn't work for me.
Honestly, sis, I'd be okay with what he likes if he'd TRY to do it my way part of the time. This is where I wish the fellas could "just do it", kwim. Like I said, this has been going on for about 6 weeks and I've mentioned it once so I'm not harping on him by any stretch. In fact, *he's* the one who brings it up all the time..."I know I haven't been the best H lately..." and things like that.
I was looking at my H this morning and it occurred to me that there is a deep disconnect between his body and his brain, as it concerns sex. Horniness, to him, is something you experience when your body starts giving your brain signals that it needs sex--rather than the other way around, wherein your body starts feeling horny because your brain is inundating it with sexual thoughts. He waits until he gets the physical signals from his body--regardless of what stimuli is in front of him. For instance, I was getting dressed this morning in front of him, bare arse naked and shaved bare and he didn't bat an eye. I'm quite sure his brain didn't even 'register' me, if ykwim. Later on tonight, tho, I'll betcha he's all over me (it's been roughly a week since we last ML, which is a long time to both of us).
I don't know what my point is here except to say that if I didn't ever think about sex, or if I put it out of my mind when I did, my level of general horniness would plummet. It's no surprise to me that he operates the way he does.
