hp, it seems to me that your H has come a very long way in meeting your needs. You say he now offers loving AND horny sex every three days. As someone who has had sex once in the last year, it's hard for me to see how that can still be unsatisfactory-- not to question that to you it is not, just hard for ME to see it... especially since it is loving and horny, which I believe have been somewhat missing in the past.

What is it particularly that makes this still NOT what you need? Is it the number of O's-- by that I mean you never reach a level of true satiation? Can you MB while he holds you on off nights (or does that violate the Catholic thing?)? Does he not initiate passionately enough or not show enough desire? You say he "offers"-- that doesn't sound like burning desire...

How would adding one or two more nights make a difference? I don't mean that rhetorically-- I mean it literally. If he offered every other day... what would that bring to you that is still missing at every three days?

If he came to you with feverish passionate desire, but the frequency was only once or twice a week, would that trip a switch that is not tripped by every-three-day horny-but-not-over-the-top sex?