Ok, I have no idea who kenneth is, and neither did Dan Rather, but that's neither here nor there. (it was Dan Rather, right?)
Where is this thread going. Oh yeah. Frequency.
H and I have hit a road bump as it concerns frequency. We are currently not agreeing on it, obviously. He likes every 3 days. This is not enough for me. We seem to be stuck. He says, with the start of every new week, that it will be different and it never is. This has been going on since we began ML again 6 weeks ago. Every week it is the same.
The up side is that we have *really* progressed in terms of how we can talk to each other about sex stuff. It is so easy and uncomplicated--I never would have thought it possible. I mean, sure, it's easy to discuss this stuff when things are going grand but it's a whole different story to navigate the discussions when one or both partners is not happy with the status quo. The discussions always end nicely and lovingly, with no raised voices or blood pressure. Niiiiice.
Any ideas for me?
Should I:
1. Accept his loving and horny offering of sex every 3 days, and consider that pretty good and be grateful for the resolution.
Or,
2. Keep trying for a situation that addresses my own needs better.
