First, no. I am not getting divorced. I still believe in the death-do-us-part business. But what would happens if your spouse divorces you. Then are you able to remarry without committing adultery, whereas they WOULD be committing adultry if they remarry. Or do you have to stay single for the rest of your life? Would a spouse filing for divorce be an act of abandonment, which I believe does allow the wronged party to remarry?