Can Long-Term affairs be over come?

[spitfire23]

Hi SallyG,
Just checking in with you to see how it's going. I've had a very strange week so far. Sadly, on Monday I was told that our family dog is terminal with doggie lymphoma. It was crushing news. We love him a lot and I was just so sad for my boys. One more thing to deal with at a very
stressful time. We are trying to enjoy our dog until he
has to go to doggie heaven (probably within the month)
H came over to pick up his mail on Tues. It was so strange. He stayed for over an hour and talked about a lot of stuff.( NOT our R!) He was just as chatty and friendly as could be. He asked permission to come visit the dog! He hasn't visited with our kids but he wants to come see the dog?! He also wants to be involved in a meeting that I have regarding some remodeling on the house???? That one really threw me. I think I was very good with DBing. It's really pretty easy for me because my emotions are just so even. I don't feel angry or desperate or in love with this man. I just look at him and wonder. I can't tell you how happy it makes me to be so unemotional about him. It's such a relief after all the drama of the last 2 1/2 years. I find this time around so different from when I first learned of the OW.
How are things with you and your H? Any news? Well, I hope it is all good. You'll be in my thoughts.

Spitfire23