Hi Sally, Thanks for asking about me. You sound as though you're in a better place today. Here's hoping that more of these days happen and the bad days become less frequent.
In response to your question, my H is still in the home and probably will be at least until July when our lease runs out. We have a D6 and have been trying to keep her out of this mess as we try to sort through it, thus we still put on the outward appearance of the happy family. Also, my stitch is unique in that we really do behave/feel like friends and spend a good deal of time together both individually and as a family. There really are not that many stressful confrontations as I don't bring up OW or R. Furthermore, although he is stiill calling her nightly (and I suspect e-mailing or at least checking e-mail from her) he hasn't seen her in three weeks. This makes it easier for me to keep my emotions in check. This makes is hard to DB in other ways though. I feel like I'm living some sort of continental life (you know the man, the mistress, the wife) which I don't want. He has made some toddler steps toward me and is even nosy about what I'm up to again.
I spend half of my time biting my tongue when his moodiness comes on and am surprised that it's still attached. I must admit though that sometimes that barely attached appendage rushes out and waggles furiously at him (bad DBing but hey I'm human). We have our second C session tonight. Not looking forward to it because it means confronting the beast of our marriage again.
