flauner, How aqre you? Has your H moved out of your house or have you been DBing with him home. I have to admit that I find it easier to DB with H out of the house. When he was home and mopping aroud it was all I could do to hold my big mouth closed. I suspect this might have been the advantage that OW has also had. It is easier to be pleasant and up-beat when you don't see someone day in and day out. I hope that these techniques become a habit for me, if not for my H, (my goal!!!) then for any other relationship that I may have. Take care and keep in touch. SallyG.
