"It was hard for me to wrap my mind around the fact that he does find me attractive but he doesn't show it."

A perfect way of stating the crucial issue for I'll bet most people here. I gotta remember that logic doesn't work.

"I'm not worried about sugar-coating anymore. Seems to work better for us."

I'm not there yet, but I hope to be at some point. Complete honesty can actually be a huge weight off your shoulder, kwim?

"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack