You're no different in that aspect than most anyone else...no one likes to be insulted or spoken down to. Unfortunately TS has a bad habit of that and probably didn't like having so many of us pointing that out to him. BUT, if he does that to us here...there's a VERY good chance he does that at home as well....and it's something that he'd need to work on. He probably doesn't want to hear that though.
There's a place we all have to get to when we're working on our R's, especially the types we are working on....and that's a place where we recognize our own contributions to the problem (no matter what it is). When we are willing to recognize our contributions, then we are more apt to be willing to work on those aspects of ourselves as well. I just have a gut feeling TS isn't in that place yet. Hopefully eventually he'll get there...but I don't think he's there yet.