Quote: I asked my wife if she thought I was angry, macho, manipulative, childish; she said, "No, honey, whatever made you think of that?". I tell her some of what I post on this board and the friendly greetings I get from the other posters.
It kind of depends on what aspect of yourself you happen to be displaying, doesn't it?
For instance, we could have church serving Deacon who does nightly visitation to church members in the hospital, praying with them and weeping with them.
Every night after the Deacon finishes his ministry and leaves the hospital, he drives by a nearby street corner and picks up 2 hookers and what he pays for involves duct tape and sharp objects.
Now, let's ask both groups about our hypothetical Deacon:
To church members, "is the Deacon kinky?" From church members, "no, whatever made you think that?"
To hookers, "is the Deacon kinky?" From hookers, "yeah."
