I'll say it again, "dude, chill out!" Who cares if she is a professional. Pretty much everything everyone says here is an non-professional opinion (OG_Lou talking about DIY projects notwithstanding). You are using one of the classic no-nos in debate logic, appeal to authority. A statement should be judged on its relative correctness or falseness, not on the qualifications of the person who spoke it. In other words, your statements disagreeing with Lil's anger being brought out in therapy comments were entirely appropriate. Your statements implying that she should not make such comments unless she is a therapist are not appropriate and not logical.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"