Ok fine. Lil can answer for herself, I won't do that for her.
What about the rest of my question? How would you describe yourself if you had to? Same question applies to those people who know you...how do you think your W and friends would describe you if they were asked? There are many clues about ourselves that reside in how others perceive us...you don't need a therapist to tell you that right? The truth often resides somewhere between how we see ourselves and how others see us.
