Actually....yes, I can equate them (because you don't get to tell me what I can and can't do .)
I used the words I did intentionally, the words....minion, hateful, & childish....all conjur up undesireable pictures in my mind when referring to an adult, that would be why I used those words. "Minion" according to the dictionary (I double checked this to make sure I wasn't speaking out of turn)...also means "a servile or fawning dependant" or "an obsequious follower".....those TS aren't flattering to anyone....go look it up. Websters.com
"Hateful" to you obviously means those things such as Nazis etc...but you have no idea how I intended it now do you? One of my interpretations of hateful is someone who tears others down, someone who is constantly negative...I don't necessarily mean someone who commits genocide or leads the "dark side"....but how are you to know that unless I tell you that's my interpretation? You won't. THAT would be why I used those words....I figured you might interperet them differently. Words are powerful TS, written or spoken.
You do have an tendancy to tear people down on here if they don't see things your way, or if they agree with someone you don't agree with. You may not think you do this, but you do. When other posters have come to this BB and not provided support after awhile people stop responding to them....I mean, who wants to beat their head up against a wall on here? I can do that at home!
TS I think you are probably a really nice guy and I'm pulling for you, I really am. But are you sure you are in Atlanta, you aren't from New Jersey? I have a friend from Jersey and you remind me an awful lot of him....he too has a tendancy to come off in a way he doesn't intend LOL.
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