Well my post got lost. and you personalized it. I see you have been making friends today TSinA.

here is my previous post from memory....


I actually like this post. You come off as strong in it. I actually like it when men stand up and fight back a little.

So efff you too. yes that is from biology.

I feel defensive about the money imbalance, because I fantasize my WS thinks less of me as a man because of it. But she has never said one word about it, so all that is probably in my head

Well that is a negative inner voice, (kinda like the one you have that says no one likes me I may as well be mean for no reason. and then it gets validated.) and it causes you to act in a weak and fearful manner. Which is not attractive to a woman.

Untill you change above mentioned inner voice, there is nothing I can do to help you. So though I will not make you disappear, I am not inclined to have in depth convos with you either.

There is not much else to comment on in your post other then your excuse about posting to me on another forum.

People here are helpers, I dont see any real negative ones YET that are out to mess up other people. May want to try taking some of the medicine handed out around here, even if it tastes bad. Ill say it straight out. People like self confidance and PMA. I dont see either in you, currently, or a mind open to them.

See ya round.