The Art of Sexual Ecstasy - Anand

[TSinAtlanta]

When I am giving oral, (do I have to say it? to a woman, Jackasses I heard you thinking it.) I will stop when I hear her start to hold her breath, for a couple seconds and say 'breathe'. Then resume,

When I am giving my WS oral, I will sometimes pause, just because my jaw is getting tired. When we talk about it later, my WS says is heightens the sensation because it draws out the foreplay and leading up to the orgasm. I always know I can bring her to orgasm with oral sex, even when rubbing her with my fingers doesn't work. I guess my lips and tongue are softer and more moist then my fingers. I also give her a back and forth flicking with my tongue, which I wish I could keep up longer because it really excites her, but, I unfortunately don't have the tongue or jaw strength to do it for very long.

Further on the dominance/submission tack, you can get the whole gamut of advice on this board. When I first started posting, Uncle NY said I should greet my WS at the end of each day by taking her two hands, gazing soulfully into her eyes, being more aware of what she is thinking and feeling at a particular moment. Chrissy seems to think, what, I am not sure, but I think she means I should confront my WS about the fact that she did not tell me about the 12-year affair and that I only found out about it through the OM's wife. Well, that's what makes a horse race.