When I buy things that are for school lunches its hands off to all for any other reason. But there are the just bought its that are free for all for all of the kids.
I do not tend to buy anything for one paticular child. Don't find it fair to the others. This includes if one is with me and the others are not and I buy one a drink and candy I buy and take home for all.
I think HD sitch is harder then mine though. He has the dynamic of yours and mine going on in his house. That adds a different twist of what seems fair or favortism. I feel for him on this one. I know it must be hard to deal with.
