Believe me I'm not holding my breath waiting on him to pick up the rope. Actually, if he does I'm going to be surprised. Right now I'm taking things one day at a time, giving him plenty of opportunity to pick up that rope. One day, if he doesn't pick up that rope...he'll wake up and find me gone.
I used to think that if I left that would be the end of things. I no longer think that way. Just because I'm no longer living in the same house with him (if that happens) I can choose to continue working on things....if in fact moving out is what snaps him out of it. However, at this point...I'm definitely not ready to take that course of action.
