Ok, fair enough -- let me rephrase (slightly):

If you DON'T set boundaries, and then enforce them in a masculine way, she DEFINITELY won't find you attractive, and you DEFINITELY won't get any.

If you DO, you may or may not be more attractive (you probably will be), but you may or may not get any.

So, using the above logic, you are still on the better path to nookie, AND you're happier with yourself along the path.

Is that a drier blanket?

Choc.