when she turned her body toward mine,

Why did you include this in your post? Body language is very telling. I take it as being the truth, with most women,( some are sneaky) and ignore their words if they conflict.

She is getting concerned. you are expressing your disapproval without anger and she has nothing to fight against. So she is trying to create some emotional reaction.

The thanks is always safe and simple, Lils recommendation was expert level. Expect that she is going to reach out in unexpected, suprising ways, as you continue to require and earn respect. Dont go for the touchy, grabby. It will come off as supplicating and set you back. Let her continue to reach out emotionally, and physically. Tease her when she does the physical. Occasionally, when appropriate.

I liked Chrissys idea because it was unpredictable, is GAL for you, and I want to see your W reaction.

Have I mentioned predictability bores women to death?

Supposing you had an affair. What kind of things would you do different, would you want to try with OW? How could you incorporate them now?