"Apologized for what? Actually, I thought my W owed ME an apology, but I hate asking for apologies. And her behavior after the altercation, was enough for me. The thing was, I did this all without getting ANGRY and LOUD. I was still upset about what she said, but I acted in a calm manner."
Don't get me wrong HD. I think you did the right thing. I am just relating how my W would have reacted. She knows that even if she is in the wrong, all she has to do is clam up for a few days and I'll start apologizing. It is a fault of mine that I am trying to work on.
BTW, I am the same way, I get embarrased by apologies. I don't go looking for them. I'd rather the matter just get dropped and we move on. Maybe that is faulty behavior on my part?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
