Sorry you are feeling angry. I hate when I have those days. Those are the days I need to avoid H and R talks the most.
If it were me and I thought it would be uncomfortable for anyone, I wouldn't do it. I agree with you that it won't get you any closer.
My MIL wasn't chatty when I seen her for the first time but she called me on the phone one day and was really chatty. Told me she was shocked this was happening and didn't know what to tell me to do. She usually doesn't say much to me so I was shocked she said all that she did.
My H and my mom get along really well but I still think it would be uncomfortable for them to spend much time together. Probably more so for H though.
