Quote: What do you think about his reply? Do you see any positives or negatives in it?
Hum, let's see:
Quote: my behavior definately suggests that I am emotionally unstable.
he recognizes that he has been contradictory and weird.
Quote: you think I was trying to have sex.
I don't think; I KNOW he was. He is appologizing because he knows it makes his attitudes weirder.
Quote: just wanted to hug you, cause I missed you.
I don't even have to comment on this one - positive written all over it.
Quote: And when I said that I was sorry for doing this too you, I meant I was sorry for being so flakey and taking you on this roller coaster ride or emotions.
He is afraid that I am thinking he is cheating on me (check the first Sunday - that's what he is trying to explain).
Quote: I decided not to come over this weekend, cause I don't want to see you upset.
He is telling a lie here but that's ok. There are many reasons why he didn't come over (mainly my mom), but he is mirroring me on the "not liking to see him upset" issue. He does that a lot (mirroring me). Sometimes he will even repeat an expression or word I use right after I say it. It's even funny. He wants me to think he doesn't like to see me upset, so, yes, there are lots of positives here.
