I have been practicing the DB principles in other areas of my life and something strange has been going on.
Ever since I stopped going hysterical about my problems with my mom, and appeared upbeat, didn't react to her pushing my bottoms, and really, really listened to her, etc, she started confessing some deep family secrets. Coincidence? I don't know. She just told me that my grandma didn't die of cancer, she killed herself (the poison took 8 months to destroy her body - these 8 months feel like a few days in my memory; I was a little girl). She also told me she has OM.
The other day even my boss started openning up to me about intimate details of his M. Am I becoming a better listener? I don't know.
