Quote: I think two things: he is embarrassed of my mom (and I bet I won't see him for a while) and is running away from D talk.
I bet it is a little of both. H loves my mom but has avoided her like the plague. As far as D talks go, my H has said he has no intentions of filing. Yet he just went out and signed a 12 month lease on a one bedroom apartment. I get the mixed signals too and just have to hang on while I go for the ride until H decides what it is that he REALLY wants.
Good luck during the waiting game. I don't know why patience was chosen as a virtue because it stinks.