Hey Caverna my mum too is a rock and supportive and so there when you need her, but also worries about me and how I am coping so at the moment I am not really telling her anything and she thinks I am putting all my efforts into finishing uni and only calls once a week to see how I am going.
I don't want her to be upset and though I have no idea where this is going I don't want her to 'hate him' incase it works out.
Good thing drinking too much makes you look like c-r-a-p too. Funny how we grow up and don't want to worry our mothers.
ggod goals for your mom relationship, this way you are making it easier for everyone and I am sure your mom will probably see through what you are doing.
Maybe you can even say that you worry sometimes she will turn against him because she is the person you talk to when angry and that if you work this out you are worried you may wreck any relationship she could have with him.
I get the impression too that he is running a mile when the big D talk raises it's head I would do the same - don't talk about it - bury it for a while if he raises it be busy no time.
It is hard when you make a call and there is no response isn't it, I wonder if I am being ignored or did he not know yet that I called because he is busy.
Maybe its not
Quote: He doesn't want to be married
sounds like he doesn't want to do anything to change things at least just yet.
Look have a great visit with your mom, do as much mum and D stuff as you can it will make you feel better. and as Lostlove says all you can do is work is on you work on who you are, what your want for yourself and go get it
